At our latest Lunch and Learn event on Wednesday, November 20th, Growth and Care committee members, Marsha Besch and Alicia Kitzman led a discussion about downsizing and decluttering - "How Much is Too Much and How Little is Enough?" A TED talk video by Rita Wilkins: Downsize Your Life: Why Less Is More was included in the presentation.

Statistically, those in their late 50's and early 60's are first to consider downsizing when planning for retirement, desiring a simpler lifestyle or when children transition from the family home. Others may be prompted to make a change if: mortgage and home expenses exceed 28% of income, there is a change in lifestyle or financial resources, maintenance tasks loom, space in the home no longer serves, there has been a shift in family dynamics or need for increased accessibility. First steps in the downsizing process are to determine the "must haves" regarding location and size of dwelling desired, obtain an updated appraisal of the property, and give practical and honest thought to what re-locating might mean. Ask whether making a move or merely repurposing a present home the better choice? One may think that the status quo is working and doesn't need "fixing" but an overriding truth prevails - no matter how settled you feel you are, your life WILL change! Giving thought to the possibility of downsizing does NOT mean you will have to move. Take time to consider your options for the future when you have the energy to act and can be objective. Your family, friends and those who care about you will thank you for it.

Whether or not downsizing is your motivation, choosing to tackle the daunting task of decluttering can be a game-changer in your everyday life. The internet is rife with information, check lists, tips and motivational help about how decluttering can provide a more organized life less encumbered by the extraneous things currently occupying our time and space. In order not to become overwhelmed, we are advised to make a plan, start small, go room-by-room and enlist help if necessary. Often, things which once brought joy to our lives, over time, have become sources of stress and contributors to the clutter. Identify whether items will be kept, discarded or donated and don't second guess your decision. Be discerning about what REALLY needs to be retained. Keep deeply sentimental items, mementos family members or friends have requested and also, important legal papers and documents. You'll learn things you value and think those near and dear will most certainly want to have, in most instances, they will NOT. However, there are people who will be happy to adopt what you choose to give away or sell. Be comforted by knowing what may have begun as an emotional, impossible undertaking becomes easier and you'll be rewarded with a sense of freedom and accomplishment. Take a photo of the item as you send it on to a new life. Keep the memories close and remember: who you are is not the things you own.

If you would like to listen to the audio from the presentation, it can be found here. The handouts from the presentation can be found here.